John 3:3-7 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother’s womb, and be born? Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and [of] the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.
What did Jesus mean by this statement? Nicodemus thought Christ was referring to “that which is born of the flesh” type of birth but Jesus Christ was not talking about a physical birth from a mother’s womb as the “birth” that must be repeated. The birth that is “born of the Spirit” must occur in order for one to see the kingdom of God and receive salvation.
What Jesus meant was that a person must experience a spiritual rebirth. The Bible says that man is separated from God due to the Adamic sinful nature and needs to be reconciled to with God by becoming what the Bible calls a new creature in Jesus Christ. A spiritually dead person can no more give himself spiritual life that a physically dead person can give himself physical live.
The born again experience requires a supernatural act on the part of God. We get into the family of God in precisely the same way that we get into our human family, by being born into it. By this supernatural act, God Himself, through His Holy Spirit, sovereignly takes us out of the kingdom of Satan and places us in His spiritual kingdom by a spiritual rebirth.
“No man can come to me, except the Father that sent me draw him” John 6:44
“All that the Father giveth me shall come unto me; and he that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out” John 6:3
“But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name.” John 1:12
In conclusi0n, in order to be saved from death and hell one must become born again. Only God can make this happen. How? By asking him to save you through Jesus Christ the Savior. If you are really sincere, he will hear you for he says that whoever comes to him he will not turn away !